In the past week or so I've had a couple of people mention they are worried about me with the job situation and such. And while I absolutely welcome any and all support I want to challenge everyone who loves me, heck, everyone who loves someone else.... Don't.
Don't worry about me. Don't worry about your loved one. Don't worry about yourself.
Pray.
Rejoice! Find the things in life that ARE working. Look at life and praise God for the beauty you can enjoy. Thank God that He has a plan, that He will turn things around, that He will meet all needs, that He will protect His children, that He will strengthen each of us to endure the trials and that He provides for us joy!
Listen, I know this is tough. I've been in the rut recently myself. I've been slowly drifting back to that place where I only see what I cannot change and what I wish would change. Who ever looks at a job and says, "I wish I was unemployed. I wish my income was reduced. I will be glad when the bills don't change but the money coming in does." Who wishes for that??
But here's the reality, there will be things in our lives for which we can plan accordingly. And there will be things in our lives that will surprise us and have the potential to knock us off our feet.
1 Peter 4:12 (New International Version)
12Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you.
Peter let all of us know we shouldn't be surprised when trouble comes our way. He was reminding us what Jesus said.
John 16:33 (New International Version)
33"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
"In this world you will have trouble."
There isn't much wiggle room with that statement. Christ said we will face trouble. But let us also remember Job. He faced tremendous suffering and tragedy. And nothing that was brought upon him by the enemy was permitted to take his life. God allowed Satan to test Job's resolve. But not to destroy him entirely.
Sometimes the trouble we're facing is a result of sowing bad seed. That is true. We do have consequences for our actions. If we live financially irresponsible, eventually that will catch up to us. If we decide to overdo the party life in our teens and twenties, in our forties and fifties, we'll feel it. Contact sports in college? You'll know about it when you're 40!
But many times, our troubles are a test of our resolve and our faith. Many times it is an opportunity for God to use something that was meant for our harm to show His faithfulness, to show His love, to reveal His glory. He may use it to prove to the enemy that we are faithful, that we do believe in His provision and ability to work out our difficulties and elevate us above our troubles. And an opportunity for us to demonstrate our trust in Him.
Philippians 4:11-12 (New International Version)
11I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.
Philippians 3:12-14 (New International Version)
12Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:4-7 (New International Version)
4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Hebrews 12:28-29 (New International Version)
28Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, 29for our "God is a consuming fire."
Colossians 3:2 (New International Version)
2Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.
Romans 8:28 (New International Version)
28And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Isaiah 54:17 (New International Version)
17 no weapon forged against you will prevail,and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD,and this is their vindication from me," declares the LORD.
No matter what adversity you are facing: health, relationships, finances, temptations, etc. remember the promises. Remember to find the blessings. Remember you control the obsessions of your mind. You control your thoughts and where they go. Force them to go against the negative things, the reasons for your suffering, the tragedies you're facing, the losses you've had.
Force your thoughts to focus on life. Focus on the blessings. Remember, someone in the world is in a worse position than you are. Someone doesn't have a home, a car, a job, food, medicine, love, hope, joy. Someone doesn't know Jesus Christ. Someone doesn't see a way out of their hopeless situation. Someone needs to see God's light shining through your life. Someone needs their faith restored. Someone needs to see God working through your life to be encouraged their own situation can turn around. Someone needs to hear how God is providing for you in order to believe He will provide for them, too. Someone needs to see His restoration in your hope, your faith, your dreams so they can believe.
I'm not perfect at this. I can become discouraged, too. I can shift my thoughts to what is missing or what isn't the way I wish it to be. I can listen to the enemy's lies and become full of anxiety and stress and worry. I can shift my eyes from my Father to the problem. I can fall into the trap of trying to figure it out in my strength rather than recognizing I need God's grace to get through and to get out of His way and let Him work in His timing and with His method.
Let me tell you, I've seen Him work in the lives of others. And I've listened to their testimonies about how He has given them the grace to stay in peace and joy even amidst the storm. I was hesitant. I thought to myself, "But they've never felt _______." And I was wrong. The emotion of hopelessness is the same at it's very core regardless of what caused it. The circumstances causing it may be very, very different. The experiences may be very different indeed. But the feeling itself of being overwhelmed and without hope is the same.
And so is the answer.
I'm in the process of practicing what has been preached and even what I myself have shared. I'm in the process of taking the head knowledge of the promises and engraving them upon my heart. I'm in the process of walking the talk.
Hear what I'm saying to you, it's working. I am finding myself facing a tremendous unknown. The potential is there to be consumed with anxiety, worry and stress. The potential is there to allow these three things to destroy my physical and mental health. But I'm not allowing it.
Do I have moments? Sure! I'm human! I have moments of doubt. I have moments when I question things and I look at things with that shifty look of disbelief. But if I shake my head once or twice and speak aloud the promises of my Creator, I change my thoughts. I change my focus. And I remember to give it back to the One in control. I look around me and appreciate what I do have and I pray for those who are lacking. I remind myself of all of the ways God has showed up in just the past year, let alone the past 37, and I'm overcome with humility and disbelief about why He would continue to be faithful.
But even that is for another time.
Stay in your blessings. Stay in faith. Keep your hope alive. Immerse yourself in His grace. Bask in His light. Believe what He tells you. Trust Him. And embrace the joy and peace that comes with it.
Stand strong my friends! Redemption is just around the corner!
Live blessed!
Jeani
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Sometimes We Cry
When I was a kid, I was really, really -- and I do mean REALLY -- opposed to crying. I tried to control it. I tried to control the fear. I tried to control emotional pain. And I decided that when those emotions tried to surface, they should be replaced with anger. The result? If I was crying, especially if there was an audience, it was only because the anger had boiled my insides to the point I could no longer suppress the tears. And if I had an exit route, you'd better believe I would be alone quickly.
As I've become an adult, I've realized there is something to be said about compassion. I had it when I was a kid. But I didn't want to show it. I didn't want to be vulnerable in front of others. So, I would extend a word here or there, offer a hug or pat on the back, but my most common weapon against sadness was humor. I remember being 3 years old seeing my mother sitting across the table from me crying and thinking to myself, "Be cute. Make her laugh."
But sometimes, you just need to cry.
John 11:33-35 (New International Version)
33When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34"Where have you laid him?" he asked.
"Come and see, Lord," they replied.
35Jesus wept.
This section of scripture refers to the compassion Jesus felt toward the family of Lazarus, a man who'd been a friend to Him who had been sick and died several days before His arrival. The family believed that Jesus could heal their sick brother. But Christ knew He was to raise Lazarus from the dead to honor and glorify God and so the Jews would see He really was the Son of God. He knew this pain and suffering they experienced was temporary. He knew in mere moments their heavy hearts would be freed of the grief and overwhelmed with joy as they would have Lazarus back. But their pain affected Him. And He wept.
There is no shame in displaying or demonstrating compassion. There is nothing wrong with being moved to tears of joy or tears of sadness for our friends and loved ones.
And sometimes we just need to let others know we care.
Sometimes, we cry.
As I've become an adult, I've realized there is something to be said about compassion. I had it when I was a kid. But I didn't want to show it. I didn't want to be vulnerable in front of others. So, I would extend a word here or there, offer a hug or pat on the back, but my most common weapon against sadness was humor. I remember being 3 years old seeing my mother sitting across the table from me crying and thinking to myself, "Be cute. Make her laugh."
But sometimes, you just need to cry.
John 11:33-35 (New International Version)
33When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34"Where have you laid him?" he asked.
"Come and see, Lord," they replied.
35Jesus wept.
This section of scripture refers to the compassion Jesus felt toward the family of Lazarus, a man who'd been a friend to Him who had been sick and died several days before His arrival. The family believed that Jesus could heal their sick brother. But Christ knew He was to raise Lazarus from the dead to honor and glorify God and so the Jews would see He really was the Son of God. He knew this pain and suffering they experienced was temporary. He knew in mere moments their heavy hearts would be freed of the grief and overwhelmed with joy as they would have Lazarus back. But their pain affected Him. And He wept.
There is no shame in displaying or demonstrating compassion. There is nothing wrong with being moved to tears of joy or tears of sadness for our friends and loved ones.
And sometimes we just need to let others know we care.
Sometimes, we cry.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Drought
Sometimes we find ourselves in a place we don't want to be. We want to move forward. We want things to change. The mundane routine of our lives has reached a place of boring and without purpose. We're required to do something or to be somewhere and that passion is lacking. We know we have to perform or give what we no longer feel inspired to give. We're stuck in between one level of glory and the next. And we feel like nothing good is happening.
But we're wrong.
Jeremiah 29:11 (New International Version)
11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Romans 8:28 (New International Version)
28And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
What are we to do during these seasons of our life we no longer "feel" the presence of God and we no longer feel motivated to even live up to our current expectations? We are longing for a change and something to inspire us to action, but it just isn't there.
The answer may be different for each of us. Some of us will spend money and buy something exciting. Some of us will enter into new relationships and ride the wave of that buzz for a bit. Some of us will start new jobs. Take time off. Go on a trip. Many times we seek a new experience. And it is generally successful in providing that spark we seek - for a moment.
What I am learning is to embrace a few things in order to rejuvenate myself and help me redirect my focus.
1. When I realize I'm in a rut, I begin to first practice Psalm 46:10 -- "Be still. And know I am God." When I don't know which decision to make, when I don't know the direction I should turn, when I feel easily confused because my mind is convincingly arguing two opposing sides of a decision, I need to sit still. I need to make no decision. And I need to remember I am not in control of the universe, but simply myself. I need to become quiet and remember I serve a loving God Who will not lead me down the wrong path.
2. The second thing I need to do is rejoice.
1 Thessalonians 5:16 (Amplified Bible)
16Be happy [in your faith] and rejoice and be glad-hearted continually (always);
Philippians 4:4 (New International Version)
4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!
I need to take my eyes off the dirt surrounding me (rut analogy, remember?) and focus upon the things in my life that are blessings. Sometimes, if I've allowed myself to sink deeply into mediocrity, this list might have to start with the fact that I'm breathing, which means there is still a purpose I need to meet. Quickly, if I force my mind to focus upon it, I can add family, friends, simple things like blue skies, the sun, fall colors, children's laughter, etc. The goal here is to shift my attention from what is weighing me down and to the things that will lift me up. Not only do I inventory this list, but I also consciously thank God for each item on this list.
3. Rejoicing is important and it is referenced in several verses in the Bible. But the following verse in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 is extremely important as well.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 (New Living Translation)
17 Never stop praying.
Depending upon my level in the rut, I may pray for a light so that I may see the intended path. I may pray for grace to overcome some judgmental attitude, resentment, anger, or unforgiveness. I may pray for direction. I may pray for supportive people to emerge. I may pray for forgiveness for myself. At the very least, I enter into a conversation with my Heavenly Father about my condition.
4. I have faith. I believe that through these steps and by petitioning in prayer asking God to fight my battles for me, that God is doing what He says He will do. I trust that He will fulfill His promises. I know that He has my best interest in mind. And I accept that whatever He may bring to pass may not be what I've asked Him for, nor what I want. But I know it will be for my benefit.
Hebrews 11:1 (New Living Translation)
1 Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see.
5. Finally, and sometimes even more difficult than the four preceding steps: obedience. The absolute best example of obedience to the Father against the fleshly will is when Christ prayed to God asking Him for another way to fulfill His will. But He committed to do what the Father asked of Him regardless.
Luke 22:42 (King James Version)
42Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.
I have a strong internal desire to be obedient. And it strengthens the more time I spend with God. I want to glorify and honor Him. I want to extend the grace, mercy, hope and love I've been given without earning it and certainly undeserved.
But often, I can feel that deep, internal tug in my gut advising me to keep my mouth closed, or alternately, to speak; to act in some manner that seems completely ridiculous. And I do exactly the opposite of what I feel should or shouldn't act. And later realize why I should have done what I didn't do (or shouldn't have done/said what I did/said.)I may see an intersection of life that I blew by and later realize down the road I didn't want to take is a blessing I missed.
On the flip side of this, when I am obedient, I see those red lights and the wrecks that were avoided. I see the protection and the provision. And I feel humbled and grateful.
Are you in a rut? Are you living a mediocre life and tired of the mundane? Do you find yourself day dreaming of the "perfect" life?
Try this process. Give it a sincere try. Open your heart and mind to it. Be willing to be silent with God. Be willing to give decisions some time rather than being impulsive. Don't go to the other extreme and never make decisions. But be willing to test it against the direction of God.
Expand your relationship with the Father beyond asking Him for healing when a loved one is ill; or asking for protection during days of traveling.
Ask Him what He wants you to change to spring you from mediocrity into excellence. Is it priorities? Is He first in your life? Is it a bitter heart? A mouth spewing lies, gossip or hatred? Maybe you never speak the things you really think, but inside you feel resentment. Perhaps you aren't even judging others harshly because you're too busy judging yourself and you are filled with remorse and guilt; and maybe these two emotions have you paralyzed from believing you have the option to move forward.
None of us are perfect. We all sin in some manner. We're not here to judge one another's relationship with the Father. We're simply here to begin our own and allow Him to change within us what He wills so that He can bless us in His perfect way.
Fall at the feet of the cross. Rest in the arms of your Father. Open His Word and learn of His love and the promises He gives you for taking care of you. And dare to believe it. Then look around and I'd bet you're no longer looking at dirt. I bet you'll be out of your rut.
Be in peace my friends!
Jeani
But we're wrong.
Jeremiah 29:11 (New International Version)
11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Romans 8:28 (New International Version)
28And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
What are we to do during these seasons of our life we no longer "feel" the presence of God and we no longer feel motivated to even live up to our current expectations? We are longing for a change and something to inspire us to action, but it just isn't there.
The answer may be different for each of us. Some of us will spend money and buy something exciting. Some of us will enter into new relationships and ride the wave of that buzz for a bit. Some of us will start new jobs. Take time off. Go on a trip. Many times we seek a new experience. And it is generally successful in providing that spark we seek - for a moment.
What I am learning is to embrace a few things in order to rejuvenate myself and help me redirect my focus.
1. When I realize I'm in a rut, I begin to first practice Psalm 46:10 -- "Be still. And know I am God." When I don't know which decision to make, when I don't know the direction I should turn, when I feel easily confused because my mind is convincingly arguing two opposing sides of a decision, I need to sit still. I need to make no decision. And I need to remember I am not in control of the universe, but simply myself. I need to become quiet and remember I serve a loving God Who will not lead me down the wrong path.
2. The second thing I need to do is rejoice.
1 Thessalonians 5:16 (Amplified Bible)
16Be happy [in your faith] and rejoice and be glad-hearted continually (always);
Philippians 4:4 (New International Version)
4Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!
I need to take my eyes off the dirt surrounding me (rut analogy, remember?) and focus upon the things in my life that are blessings. Sometimes, if I've allowed myself to sink deeply into mediocrity, this list might have to start with the fact that I'm breathing, which means there is still a purpose I need to meet. Quickly, if I force my mind to focus upon it, I can add family, friends, simple things like blue skies, the sun, fall colors, children's laughter, etc. The goal here is to shift my attention from what is weighing me down and to the things that will lift me up. Not only do I inventory this list, but I also consciously thank God for each item on this list.
3. Rejoicing is important and it is referenced in several verses in the Bible. But the following verse in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 is extremely important as well.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 (New Living Translation)
17 Never stop praying.
Depending upon my level in the rut, I may pray for a light so that I may see the intended path. I may pray for grace to overcome some judgmental attitude, resentment, anger, or unforgiveness. I may pray for direction. I may pray for supportive people to emerge. I may pray for forgiveness for myself. At the very least, I enter into a conversation with my Heavenly Father about my condition.
4. I have faith. I believe that through these steps and by petitioning in prayer asking God to fight my battles for me, that God is doing what He says He will do. I trust that He will fulfill His promises. I know that He has my best interest in mind. And I accept that whatever He may bring to pass may not be what I've asked Him for, nor what I want. But I know it will be for my benefit.
Hebrews 11:1 (New Living Translation)
1 Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see.
5. Finally, and sometimes even more difficult than the four preceding steps: obedience. The absolute best example of obedience to the Father against the fleshly will is when Christ prayed to God asking Him for another way to fulfill His will. But He committed to do what the Father asked of Him regardless.
Luke 22:42 (King James Version)
42Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.
I have a strong internal desire to be obedient. And it strengthens the more time I spend with God. I want to glorify and honor Him. I want to extend the grace, mercy, hope and love I've been given without earning it and certainly undeserved.
But often, I can feel that deep, internal tug in my gut advising me to keep my mouth closed, or alternately, to speak; to act in some manner that seems completely ridiculous. And I do exactly the opposite of what I feel should or shouldn't act. And later realize why I should have done what I didn't do (or shouldn't have done/said what I did/said.)I may see an intersection of life that I blew by and later realize down the road I didn't want to take is a blessing I missed.
On the flip side of this, when I am obedient, I see those red lights and the wrecks that were avoided. I see the protection and the provision. And I feel humbled and grateful.
Are you in a rut? Are you living a mediocre life and tired of the mundane? Do you find yourself day dreaming of the "perfect" life?
Try this process. Give it a sincere try. Open your heart and mind to it. Be willing to be silent with God. Be willing to give decisions some time rather than being impulsive. Don't go to the other extreme and never make decisions. But be willing to test it against the direction of God.
Expand your relationship with the Father beyond asking Him for healing when a loved one is ill; or asking for protection during days of traveling.
Ask Him what He wants you to change to spring you from mediocrity into excellence. Is it priorities? Is He first in your life? Is it a bitter heart? A mouth spewing lies, gossip or hatred? Maybe you never speak the things you really think, but inside you feel resentment. Perhaps you aren't even judging others harshly because you're too busy judging yourself and you are filled with remorse and guilt; and maybe these two emotions have you paralyzed from believing you have the option to move forward.
None of us are perfect. We all sin in some manner. We're not here to judge one another's relationship with the Father. We're simply here to begin our own and allow Him to change within us what He wills so that He can bless us in His perfect way.
Fall at the feet of the cross. Rest in the arms of your Father. Open His Word and learn of His love and the promises He gives you for taking care of you. And dare to believe it. Then look around and I'd bet you're no longer looking at dirt. I bet you'll be out of your rut.
Be in peace my friends!
Jeani
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
On a Roll!
Okay, so I don't normally post two blog posts in one day. But the Father is really speaking to my heart right now. I'm really searching internally and dealing with some things I wish would hurry up and change, but they haven't. I'm learning to rest in God's grace (as one of my favorite Pastors puts it) and truly sit in the passenger seat of life - as far as control is concerned. Don't misinterpret that resting in God's grace and granting Him the control He truly owns means sitting along and simply watching the view. There are plenty of things He's going to ask you to do.
As I was sitting here, it came to my mind that my entire life I've struggled with responding to things using anger versus the actual emotion I might be feeling at that time. And as I continue to learn and grow and mature with regard to this, I sometimes become irritated that I continue to struggle and that it seems to be a very slow progression of improvement. You might say I was beating myself up about it.
Here's a truth:
2 Corinthians 5:17 (New International Version)
17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
"...the old has gone, the new has come!"
There is a power inside I didn't possess before I came to know Christ. For me, I embraced Him as a child, but I wasn't taught about a relationship with Him or the power He wants to share with me because I know Him. But I understand this now. So, I can praise God knowing that some day this issue won't have to dominate my reactions. Because the power does exist. What once was my daily reaction to things no longer has to be my daily reaction if I rely upon this relationship I have with Christ and allow the "new" to come! How awesome is that?
Finish this statement: "I have always _____________."
Maybe for you it reads like this...
"I have always been a liar."
"I have always been unfaithful."
"I have always been unforgiving."
"I have always been angry."
"I have always been untrustworthy."
"I have always been distrusting."
"I have always held grudges."
Whatever you used to fill in the blank, remember, if you've accepted the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the old is gone and the new has come! Just because "you've always been" something doesn't mean you always have to remain that way. You have inside the power of change and improvement.
Can you change it by yourself? No. Please don't believe that lie of the enemy - the one that says you can. You can't. I bought it for many, many years and have never been remotely successful. Healing of and transformation of your heart to give up these old ways, these old habits, these old defects to become more like Christ comes only from your relationship with the Father and your willingness to allow Him to work.
It's not easy. And it's sometimes painful. We become accustomed to our brokenness and even though we may not like something about ourselves, we've bought Satan's lie that it is "just how we are." Or the other one that "we deserve the suffering that comes."
Wrong!
I will likely delve into that more in the days to come. But so as not to overload anyone, let us just allow this one verse to sink into our hearts.
2 Corinthians 5:17 (New International Version)
17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
Those things we don't like about ourselves, those things we want to improve, those mistakes we always make... through our relationship with God and in His timing can change.
Be brave! Step out and ask God to help you with these things. Allow Him to do His work and heal you. Allow Him to continue molding you into who He wants you to become while here on this earth.
Be blessed!
As I was sitting here, it came to my mind that my entire life I've struggled with responding to things using anger versus the actual emotion I might be feeling at that time. And as I continue to learn and grow and mature with regard to this, I sometimes become irritated that I continue to struggle and that it seems to be a very slow progression of improvement. You might say I was beating myself up about it.
Here's a truth:
2 Corinthians 5:17 (New International Version)
17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
"...the old has gone, the new has come!"
There is a power inside I didn't possess before I came to know Christ. For me, I embraced Him as a child, but I wasn't taught about a relationship with Him or the power He wants to share with me because I know Him. But I understand this now. So, I can praise God knowing that some day this issue won't have to dominate my reactions. Because the power does exist. What once was my daily reaction to things no longer has to be my daily reaction if I rely upon this relationship I have with Christ and allow the "new" to come! How awesome is that?
Finish this statement: "I have always _____________."
Maybe for you it reads like this...
"I have always been a liar."
"I have always been unfaithful."
"I have always been unforgiving."
"I have always been angry."
"I have always been untrustworthy."
"I have always been distrusting."
"I have always held grudges."
Whatever you used to fill in the blank, remember, if you've accepted the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the old is gone and the new has come! Just because "you've always been" something doesn't mean you always have to remain that way. You have inside the power of change and improvement.
Can you change it by yourself? No. Please don't believe that lie of the enemy - the one that says you can. You can't. I bought it for many, many years and have never been remotely successful. Healing of and transformation of your heart to give up these old ways, these old habits, these old defects to become more like Christ comes only from your relationship with the Father and your willingness to allow Him to work.
It's not easy. And it's sometimes painful. We become accustomed to our brokenness and even though we may not like something about ourselves, we've bought Satan's lie that it is "just how we are." Or the other one that "we deserve the suffering that comes."
Wrong!
I will likely delve into that more in the days to come. But so as not to overload anyone, let us just allow this one verse to sink into our hearts.
2 Corinthians 5:17 (New International Version)
17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
Those things we don't like about ourselves, those things we want to improve, those mistakes we always make... through our relationship with God and in His timing can change.
Be brave! Step out and ask God to help you with these things. Allow Him to do His work and heal you. Allow Him to continue molding you into who He wants you to become while here on this earth.
Be blessed!
Value, Worth, Purpose
We don't have to look very hard in our society to see what we value. At least, what society wants us to value. Money. Possessions. Beauty. Status.
I always find it interesting when one of the Pastors I follow begins a sermon series about something I've been pondering. I get a sense my thoughts are in line with a bigger message and perhaps the sermon series is to help me find some clarity or ask more questions and dig a bit deeper within myself. One such series just began with Crosspoint here in Nashville titled "Empty Promises". The foundation for the series was set last Sunday and I don't intend to summarize the message, however, if I do reference an idea Pastor Pete presented, I will note it as such.
I was standing in line at the gas station the other day and I found myself looking at the cover of the magazines by the cashier. All of the covers were plastered with photos of people we've decided are beautiful. We've based this decision upon their physical looks, the clothes they wear, the make-up they use. We've decided to place importance upon a specific size for women, and bulging muscles for men. Most of the cover models had similar hair styles or colors, dressed a similar way - from the Country magazines to the Rock magazines. We're being handed via these media presentations an image and told if we do not resemble these particular folks, then we are not beautiful.
Fortune magazine focuses on the size of a bank account or the number listed in the assets column on the books to determine who is top dog, so-to-speak.
Other magazines will communicate through their imagery that if you are fully dressed you can't possibly be sexy.
In some circles, we'll interpret the message given directing that if we don't own our home, have 3 cars, own a boat, have a vacation home or a time share, travel here or there, etc. we can't be happy and we're certainly not successful.
We're convinced we cannot enjoy a sporting event or some other celebration without being in an altered state as a result of substances; ignoring the problems that come with this.
So, the "rest of us" who aren't gracing magazine covers or partying with sports stars, we embrace these so-called truths and we chase them. We make it our life mission to attain material possessions at whatever cost. Working one job 70 hours a week; or maybe even working two jobs 80 hours a week. We decide that this time away from actually spending time with our families, with our parents, children, grandparents, friends... This time we are making the big bucks is more important and that once we have our vacation home, we will invite our family and friends for a little siesta and make up for lost time.
I've known many who do this, and I will be completely honest and confess to you, I've done it. I've chased the people, the jobs, the items that I thought would bring me happiness.
Allow me to zero in on a statement I made: Lost time.
The reality is this: If you are reading this, today you woke up. If you are reading this, God granted you a gift of today. He's not promised you tomorrow. The way you spend the time given today is the only time you're guaranteed.
This thought leads me to several questions I want to share with you, embracing the reality of time.
Who or what am I focused on more than anything else to bring me happiness?
Who or what am I expecting to own my happiness?
What makes my world go round? What is the source of my sunshine in life?
Romans 12:12 (Contemporary English Version)
12Let your hope make you glad. Be patient in time of trouble and never stop praying.
Philippians 3:7-9 (Contemporary English Version)
7But Christ has shown me that what I once thought was valuable is worthless. 8Nothing is as wonderful as knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have given up everything else and count it all as garbage. All I want is Christ 9and to know that I belong to him. I could not make myself acceptable to God by obeying the Law of Moses. God accepted me simply because of my faith in Christ.
Romans 15:13 (Contemporary English Version)
13I pray that God, who gives hope, will bless you with complete happiness and peace because of your faith. And may the power of the Holy Spirit fill you with hope.
What if I considered the instruction and example from just these three verses? Trust me, there are more that reference an ability to be content with all things regardless of trials or triumphs need or abundance. But even in just these three verses there is a solution to unhappiness.
The sunshine of your life.... Is it money? Is it fame? Is it approval of friends or family? Is it your spouse, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend? Is it your children? Is it material items? Is it the number of hours you spend in church?
Or is it Jesus Christ? Is it a relationship with God through His Son?
Which do you think is more sustainable? More reliable? More dependable? More energizing? More fulfilling?
Which do you want to pursue?
I always find it interesting when one of the Pastors I follow begins a sermon series about something I've been pondering. I get a sense my thoughts are in line with a bigger message and perhaps the sermon series is to help me find some clarity or ask more questions and dig a bit deeper within myself. One such series just began with Crosspoint here in Nashville titled "Empty Promises". The foundation for the series was set last Sunday and I don't intend to summarize the message, however, if I do reference an idea Pastor Pete presented, I will note it as such.
I was standing in line at the gas station the other day and I found myself looking at the cover of the magazines by the cashier. All of the covers were plastered with photos of people we've decided are beautiful. We've based this decision upon their physical looks, the clothes they wear, the make-up they use. We've decided to place importance upon a specific size for women, and bulging muscles for men. Most of the cover models had similar hair styles or colors, dressed a similar way - from the Country magazines to the Rock magazines. We're being handed via these media presentations an image and told if we do not resemble these particular folks, then we are not beautiful.
Fortune magazine focuses on the size of a bank account or the number listed in the assets column on the books to determine who is top dog, so-to-speak.
Other magazines will communicate through their imagery that if you are fully dressed you can't possibly be sexy.
In some circles, we'll interpret the message given directing that if we don't own our home, have 3 cars, own a boat, have a vacation home or a time share, travel here or there, etc. we can't be happy and we're certainly not successful.
We're convinced we cannot enjoy a sporting event or some other celebration without being in an altered state as a result of substances; ignoring the problems that come with this.
So, the "rest of us" who aren't gracing magazine covers or partying with sports stars, we embrace these so-called truths and we chase them. We make it our life mission to attain material possessions at whatever cost. Working one job 70 hours a week; or maybe even working two jobs 80 hours a week. We decide that this time away from actually spending time with our families, with our parents, children, grandparents, friends... This time we are making the big bucks is more important and that once we have our vacation home, we will invite our family and friends for a little siesta and make up for lost time.
I've known many who do this, and I will be completely honest and confess to you, I've done it. I've chased the people, the jobs, the items that I thought would bring me happiness.
Allow me to zero in on a statement I made: Lost time.
The reality is this: If you are reading this, today you woke up. If you are reading this, God granted you a gift of today. He's not promised you tomorrow. The way you spend the time given today is the only time you're guaranteed.
This thought leads me to several questions I want to share with you, embracing the reality of time.
Who or what am I focused on more than anything else to bring me happiness?
Who or what am I expecting to own my happiness?
What makes my world go round? What is the source of my sunshine in life?
Romans 12:12 (Contemporary English Version)
12Let your hope make you glad. Be patient in time of trouble and never stop praying.
Philippians 3:7-9 (Contemporary English Version)
7But Christ has shown me that what I once thought was valuable is worthless. 8Nothing is as wonderful as knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. I have given up everything else and count it all as garbage. All I want is Christ 9and to know that I belong to him. I could not make myself acceptable to God by obeying the Law of Moses. God accepted me simply because of my faith in Christ.
Romans 15:13 (Contemporary English Version)
13I pray that God, who gives hope, will bless you with complete happiness and peace because of your faith. And may the power of the Holy Spirit fill you with hope.
What if I considered the instruction and example from just these three verses? Trust me, there are more that reference an ability to be content with all things regardless of trials or triumphs need or abundance. But even in just these three verses there is a solution to unhappiness.
The sunshine of your life.... Is it money? Is it fame? Is it approval of friends or family? Is it your spouse, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend? Is it your children? Is it material items? Is it the number of hours you spend in church?
Or is it Jesus Christ? Is it a relationship with God through His Son?
Which do you think is more sustainable? More reliable? More dependable? More energizing? More fulfilling?
Which do you want to pursue?
Saturday, September 11, 2010
From a Devotional I follow...
Wisdom Hunters Devotional
Plotting Evil
“The LORD said to me, “Son of man, these are the men who are plotting evil and giving wicked advice in this city.” Ezekiel 11:2
The sun never sets on evil, and alarmingly, there are people as intent on evil actions as there are those committed to good ones. Like roaches under the cloak of darkness, hideous human hearts are secretly hatching evil schemes. The worst kind of evil is disguised in the robe of religion.
They blame their terrorist tirades on a god of their making. They worship an idol of violence at the altar of racism, anger, unforgiveness, and hatred. There is no reasoning with religiously driven people warped in their warring ways. The realities of our world are riddled with religiously motivated people bent on evil. These religious fanatics are, of course, deceived and delusional.
Satan is smiling at these acts of atrocity aimed at innocent people. What better strategy for hell than for people to murder in the name of religion? This plan sends people to hell for eternity and causes others to experience hell on earth. It is a hellish nightmare that is plaguing more and more of the modern world. It is the antithesis of true religion.
Unfortunately, engineers of evil are engaged everyday in the execution of evil acts. They spend time, money, and energy like an aggressive investor in a business project of monumental proportions. Their return on investment is measured by the evil outcomes of fear, intimidation, violence, mayhem, and murder. However, there is an unseen battle raging that is even more decisive. It is the battle for the souls of men and women.
A person who comes to Christ in confession and repentance does not condemn others who hold different beliefs. Condemnation is for cowards, not for Christ followers. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus (Romans 8). An individual “in Christ” has new weapons in their arsenal of faith. Hate has been replaced by love. Violence has been replaced by peace. Death has been replaced by life. Retaliation has been replaced by forgiveness. Prayer is the primary weapon in spiritual warfare.
A tsunami of prayer will penetrate the pride of those stuck in the sick and seductive talons of terrorism. Heaven’s call is for followers of Jesus Christ to rise up in a powerful proclamation of prayer. We are the Body of Christ. When one member of the body suffers, the entire body suffers. Faith is not isolated; it is committed to the community of faith. Our friends in the faith who suffer under the tyranny of terrorism need our unprecedented prayer support.
Fervent prayer flies in the face of fascism disguised in a fanatical but false faith. We can act as if we are isolated from international crises, but we are not. We will be effected as long as evildoers plot evil. Until evil is totally transformed by the grace of God, we have a giant opportunity to invest in eternity. We have the remedy for radical religious jihads driven by evil intent: faith in Christ. Humbly and persistently we can present Jesus in our behavior and in our beliefs. He is the answer for atrocities hatched in hell. Heaven trumps hell when trust in Christ is preeminent. Pray every day for trust in Christ to triumph over tactics of terrorism. Evil plotters are no matches for persistent and pure prayers. Pray for His Kingdom to come, on earth as it is in heaven.
The Bible says, “But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy… having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them” (2 Timothy 3:1-2, 5).
Taken from the September 11th reading in Boyd Bailey’s Seeking Daily the Heart of God. This 365 day devotional book is a compilation of the reader’s favorites from Wisdom Hunters daily devotional. Andy Stanley says, “I have walked with Boyd for over 20 years and I am definitely wiser for it. You are going to love this book!”
Plotting Evil
“The LORD said to me, “Son of man, these are the men who are plotting evil and giving wicked advice in this city.” Ezekiel 11:2
The sun never sets on evil, and alarmingly, there are people as intent on evil actions as there are those committed to good ones. Like roaches under the cloak of darkness, hideous human hearts are secretly hatching evil schemes. The worst kind of evil is disguised in the robe of religion.
They blame their terrorist tirades on a god of their making. They worship an idol of violence at the altar of racism, anger, unforgiveness, and hatred. There is no reasoning with religiously driven people warped in their warring ways. The realities of our world are riddled with religiously motivated people bent on evil. These religious fanatics are, of course, deceived and delusional.
Satan is smiling at these acts of atrocity aimed at innocent people. What better strategy for hell than for people to murder in the name of religion? This plan sends people to hell for eternity and causes others to experience hell on earth. It is a hellish nightmare that is plaguing more and more of the modern world. It is the antithesis of true religion.
Unfortunately, engineers of evil are engaged everyday in the execution of evil acts. They spend time, money, and energy like an aggressive investor in a business project of monumental proportions. Their return on investment is measured by the evil outcomes of fear, intimidation, violence, mayhem, and murder. However, there is an unseen battle raging that is even more decisive. It is the battle for the souls of men and women.
A person who comes to Christ in confession and repentance does not condemn others who hold different beliefs. Condemnation is for cowards, not for Christ followers. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus (Romans 8). An individual “in Christ” has new weapons in their arsenal of faith. Hate has been replaced by love. Violence has been replaced by peace. Death has been replaced by life. Retaliation has been replaced by forgiveness. Prayer is the primary weapon in spiritual warfare.
A tsunami of prayer will penetrate the pride of those stuck in the sick and seductive talons of terrorism. Heaven’s call is for followers of Jesus Christ to rise up in a powerful proclamation of prayer. We are the Body of Christ. When one member of the body suffers, the entire body suffers. Faith is not isolated; it is committed to the community of faith. Our friends in the faith who suffer under the tyranny of terrorism need our unprecedented prayer support.
Fervent prayer flies in the face of fascism disguised in a fanatical but false faith. We can act as if we are isolated from international crises, but we are not. We will be effected as long as evildoers plot evil. Until evil is totally transformed by the grace of God, we have a giant opportunity to invest in eternity. We have the remedy for radical religious jihads driven by evil intent: faith in Christ. Humbly and persistently we can present Jesus in our behavior and in our beliefs. He is the answer for atrocities hatched in hell. Heaven trumps hell when trust in Christ is preeminent. Pray every day for trust in Christ to triumph over tactics of terrorism. Evil plotters are no matches for persistent and pure prayers. Pray for His Kingdom to come, on earth as it is in heaven.
The Bible says, “But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy… having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them” (2 Timothy 3:1-2, 5).
Taken from the September 11th reading in Boyd Bailey’s Seeking Daily the Heart of God. This 365 day devotional book is a compilation of the reader’s favorites from Wisdom Hunters daily devotional. Andy Stanley says, “I have walked with Boyd for over 20 years and I am definitely wiser for it. You are going to love this book!”
9/11 Prayer
Father God, today I lift the families of the victims from the atrocities of 9/11. I lift the families of the soldiers who've sacrificed their lives fighting this war. I lift the courageous men and women who are still fighting. And I lift the families and friends who love their soldiers. Build a hedge of protection around them. Around all of us, Lord. Keep us from the enemy's snare. Heal our wounded hearts. And let us remember Who we serve. In Jesus' name, Amen!
Friday, September 10, 2010
9/11 Will Never Be Forgotten
Okay, let me get serious for a second, 9 years ago tomorrow, I heard the phone ring in my hotel room and on the other end was my Gma's voice telling me we'd been attacked. I couldn't understand her words. She said it 3 times. I turned on the TV and sat there absorbing what I was seeing. Those images were replays. But I will never, EVER forget the feeling inside. America? Our soil?? Planes crashing into buildings??? As the confusion in my mind took over my body I felt numb. Who would do this?
Those of us who lived it know the results.
Terrorists.
What I saw in the days that followed quickly replaced the grave images plastered all over the TV and papers. I saw a nation rise up, unify, join hands and face the challenges before us. I saw reports of strangers sifting through rubble without sleep from all over the country in hopes of finding survivors. I saw lines circling buildings where people were donating blood in most of our cities.
This was something good coming from what the enemy meant for harm.
I saw the other side as well. Suddenly, terrorist and Muslim became synonymous. I assure you, they are not.
I am a Christ Follower. The Gospel resonates for me. I'm not all God intends for me to be, but I am moving in the right direction. Even still, I do not hate others who have chosen another religion. And I do not hate Muslims. Muslims are not the enemy.
Hate is the enemy.
Tomorrow, when we remember the tragedy, let us not forget the unity. Let us not forget that regardless of our differences we are the same. We all need acceptance, love, approval.
Those who choose to live a life of hate and act in hateful ways destroying unity, destroying life should be brought to justice. But let us not allow enemy #1 to destroy our focus. Our enemy is not an entire nation, or an entire religion, or a specific race.
Our enemy is ignorance, hatred, intolerance, injustice.
Let us move toward understanding each other and embracing the diversity and individuality we each bring to the game. I've said it before this week, and I'll probably keep saying it, we are each on a journey to find truth and peace.
There are extremists everywhere.
Let's don't be one of them.
To our soldiers and their families, your sacrifice is only understood by fellow soldiers and other military families. My prayers are lifted for you daily. Thank you for choosing to protect us from those who choose violence as their platform. May God's arms remain around you and protect you.
For those who've lost loved ones as a result of 9/11 itself or the ongoing war, my deepest, sincerest condolences for you. May God's healing touch constantly be upon you.
And for the rest of us, may we continue to move closer to love and farther from hate dealing the main enemy the hardest blow yet.
Walk in love, be blessed.
Jeani
Those of us who lived it know the results.
Terrorists.
What I saw in the days that followed quickly replaced the grave images plastered all over the TV and papers. I saw a nation rise up, unify, join hands and face the challenges before us. I saw reports of strangers sifting through rubble without sleep from all over the country in hopes of finding survivors. I saw lines circling buildings where people were donating blood in most of our cities.
This was something good coming from what the enemy meant for harm.
I saw the other side as well. Suddenly, terrorist and Muslim became synonymous. I assure you, they are not.
I am a Christ Follower. The Gospel resonates for me. I'm not all God intends for me to be, but I am moving in the right direction. Even still, I do not hate others who have chosen another religion. And I do not hate Muslims. Muslims are not the enemy.
Hate is the enemy.
Tomorrow, when we remember the tragedy, let us not forget the unity. Let us not forget that regardless of our differences we are the same. We all need acceptance, love, approval.
Those who choose to live a life of hate and act in hateful ways destroying unity, destroying life should be brought to justice. But let us not allow enemy #1 to destroy our focus. Our enemy is not an entire nation, or an entire religion, or a specific race.
Our enemy is ignorance, hatred, intolerance, injustice.
Let us move toward understanding each other and embracing the diversity and individuality we each bring to the game. I've said it before this week, and I'll probably keep saying it, we are each on a journey to find truth and peace.
There are extremists everywhere.
Let's don't be one of them.
To our soldiers and their families, your sacrifice is only understood by fellow soldiers and other military families. My prayers are lifted for you daily. Thank you for choosing to protect us from those who choose violence as their platform. May God's arms remain around you and protect you.
For those who've lost loved ones as a result of 9/11 itself or the ongoing war, my deepest, sincerest condolences for you. May God's healing touch constantly be upon you.
And for the rest of us, may we continue to move closer to love and farther from hate dealing the main enemy the hardest blow yet.
Walk in love, be blessed.
Jeani
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
From An Email Devotional: Dr. Charles Stanley
This was too good not to post....
Aug. 31, 2010
Reprogramming Our Thinking
Ephesians 4:20-24
"We are the product of our thinking, so it is important that we choose carefully where to focus our mental energy. We can cling to our old flesh patterns and consequently find ourselves tripping over impulses and attitudes like bitterness, pride, and discontent. The wise alternative is to reprogram our thinking to match that of Jesus Christ.
Our current thought processes—such as the way we view ourselves and others, and how we approach problems—have been programmed by authority figures, church, friends, and even enemies. We can select some of our mind's influences (e.g., the media) but not all (e.g., our parents). Yet we can choose what input will shape our mind by believing and dwelling on that material.
Reprogramming the mind is a matter of choosing to believe and meditate upon God's truth. When you receive Jesus Christ as Savior, your mind is renewed with a capacity for godly thought. It might not seem different at first. But the longer you live the Christian life and apply biblical principles, the more you'll find old habits and modes of thinking will be choked out. However, anytime you yield to temptation, you allow old thought patterns an opportunity to rise up and dominate first your mind, and then your mouth and hands.
The way to strangle fleshly thoughts and attitudes is to pour Scripture into the mind regularly and frequently (Ps. 119:11). When we allow our thinking to be directed by the thoughts of God—which is what the Bible is made of—we will think, speak, and act according to His will."
Be blessed!
Aug. 31, 2010
Reprogramming Our Thinking
Ephesians 4:20-24
"We are the product of our thinking, so it is important that we choose carefully where to focus our mental energy. We can cling to our old flesh patterns and consequently find ourselves tripping over impulses and attitudes like bitterness, pride, and discontent. The wise alternative is to reprogram our thinking to match that of Jesus Christ.
Our current thought processes—such as the way we view ourselves and others, and how we approach problems—have been programmed by authority figures, church, friends, and even enemies. We can select some of our mind's influences (e.g., the media) but not all (e.g., our parents). Yet we can choose what input will shape our mind by believing and dwelling on that material.
Reprogramming the mind is a matter of choosing to believe and meditate upon God's truth. When you receive Jesus Christ as Savior, your mind is renewed with a capacity for godly thought. It might not seem different at first. But the longer you live the Christian life and apply biblical principles, the more you'll find old habits and modes of thinking will be choked out. However, anytime you yield to temptation, you allow old thought patterns an opportunity to rise up and dominate first your mind, and then your mouth and hands.
The way to strangle fleshly thoughts and attitudes is to pour Scripture into the mind regularly and frequently (Ps. 119:11). When we allow our thinking to be directed by the thoughts of God—which is what the Bible is made of—we will think, speak, and act according to His will."
Be blessed!
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